Anxiety About Asking Questions
Note: This topic was mentioned during the call but not discussed in depth.
The tension and discomfort that can arise when trying to formulate questions.
Gabriele's Experience
"I was eager to know something new (since we can ask him anything) but on the other hand I was tense because 'I don't know what to ask (first)'"
Anxiety from:
- Freedom without structure
- Fear of asking "wrong" thing
- Vague thoughts not yet formed
- Performance pressure
Sources
Why asking can be anxious:
- Reveals ignorance
- Might seem stupid
- Could offend
- Shows what you don't know
- Requires vulnerability
Scott's Point
"Afraid of saying anything that isn't quite figured out or 'right' because the internet is forever."
Modern amplification:
- Permanent record
- Public mistakes
- Potential ridicule
- No safe exploration
Tools That Help
- Question Formulation Technique - structure reduces anxiety
- Social Containers for Curiosity - safe spaces
- Socratic Method - models that questions are valuable