Pete Kaminski
Role: Technology and collaboration expert, knowledge management practitioner
Contributions to the Discussion
Pete brought a nuanced perspective on curiosity, emphasizing that it manifests as both innate traits and learned social practices.
Core Philosophy
Pete argued against the simple narrative of declining curiosity:
"I see declines in curiosity, but I think I also see increases in curiosity, too. So, I think it changes the landscape. It keeps changing."
Curiosity as Social Practice
One of Pete's most significant contributions was his personal story of learning curiosity as a social skill from his wife Johanne:
"I learned from Johanne, my wife, to be able to be curious and have a conversation with somebody, even if maybe you don't care in the grander scheme of things, or you're shy, or whatever."
He described himself as "kind of shy" but learned that:
"It's just a rote thing, right? It's just human and polite to be sitting with somebody and to ask them, you know, how's your life? Do you have pets? Do you have friends? Where did you grow up?"
Key Insight on Gender and Curiosity
Pete shared Johanne's observation that men are acculturated to not be curious, especially about women:
"In a way, it was a kind of women's work, that she doesn't mind doing because it's not the worst thing that women have to do in this world."
However, Pete emphasized:
"It's not hard at all to learn to ask humbly and be genuinely interested in the answer."
AI and Technology Adoption
Pete discussed his experience with AI as requiring active curiosity:
"When I tried playing with it, it was actually hard work, I remember. Having to sit down and go, okay, what can I do with it now? What crazy thing could I give it?"
He described testing AI with poetry in three languages, creative writing prompts, and experimental tasks - demonstrating innate curiosity driving exploration.
Pete drew parallels to early adoption of PCs and the internet:
"I don't know what it does, but let me find out, let me try to break it, let me try to do crazy stuff with it, can it do this, can it do that?"
Navigating Social Curiosity
On the game of social interaction:
"It's a bit of a participatory game that is best played by both participants; it's okay to answer by redirecting to a different topic rather than one you don't want to talk about."
Aphorisms Shared
"Every tool is a crutch."
"The tool is not the skill; the tool is the crutch until the skill is yours."
Cultural Insights
Pete provided nuanced information about Japanese culture and curiosity:
Japanese culture values 探求心 (tankyūshin, focused desire to discover and understand deeply, rooted in long traditions of scholarship and the shokunin spirit, where traits like 精進 (shōjin, diligent effort), 向学心 (kōgakushin, desire to learn), and 好奇心 (kōkishin, curiosity) are admired.
He noted that Japanese curiosity is balanced with:
- 謙虚 (kenkyo, humility)
- 和 (wa, social harmony)
- 配慮 (hairyo, consideration for others)
Links Shared
- Doc Searls article: World Wide Puddle
- Benjamin D. Santer - Wikipedia entry
- French education system: Lycée
- Washington Post: "We analyzed 47,000 ChatGPT conversations. Here's what people really use it for."
Themes Pete Explored
- Curiosity as Social Practice
- Innate vs Learned Curiosity
- AI and Curiosity
- Cultural Dimensions of Curiosity
- Gender and Curiosity
- Technology Adoption
Related Participants
- Gil Friend - Responded to Gil's stories about one-way conversations
- Stacey Druss - Discussed genuine vs. performative curiosity
- Victoria (Spain) - Discussed AI and European perspectives
- LP1 (Louise) - Discussed education and AI use
- Scott Moehring - Discussed ELIZA and human-AI interaction
Related People Mentioned
- Johanne - Pete's wife who taught him social curiosity
- Doc Searls - Blogger and author
- Benjamin D. Santer - Climate scientist
Pages that link to this page
- Stacey Druss
- Start Here
- Technology Adoption
- Victoria (Spain)
- What Is Curiosity
- 5 Whys
- AI and Curiosity
- Active Listening
- Alphabetical Index
- Benjamin D. Santer
- Big Five Personality Traits
- Concept Index
- Cultural Dimensions of Curiosity
- Curiosity as Social Practice
- Doc Searls
- Doug Breitbart
- ELIZA
- Education and Curiosity
- Etiquette
- Etymology of Curiosity
- Gender and Curiosity
- Generational Perspectives
- Genuine vs Performative Curiosity
- Gil Friend
- How vs Why Questions
- Instructions for AI Assistant - Handling Many Calls Together
- Intrinsic vs Extrinsic Curiosity
- Is Curiosity Declining
- Jerry Michalski
- John Kelly
- John Warinner
- Kevin Jones
- LP1 (Louise)
- Mistral AI
- Participants Hub
- Playing Games Model
- Power Dynamics
- README
- Scott Moehring
- Social Containers for Curiosity
- Technology and Obsolescence
- Tools and Frameworks for Cultivating Curiosity
- Why Is Curiosity Important
- Work Log